
My story
When I was 17, I knew I was bi but I was terrified of other people's judgement, how they would react and if they would look at me differently. I came out to a couple of friends when I was 17 but I didn't manage to tell my family as I didn't want them to look at me or treat me differently. Because of this, I retracted and pushed myself back into the closet and pushed all thoughts and feelings of being bi to the side. I pushed them away for 8 years, pretending I was straight, not allowing myself to be 100% me but looking back now, this was the worst thing I could've done. I came out at 25. I finally overcame the fear of judgement but it didn't come easy. I told my family that I was bi and now I'm out and proud but I still find it difficult to tell strangers as I don't know how they would react. I feel more myself than ever and I feel so supported by my friends and family too.
Faye Roxburgh
El has been the most fantastic, charismatic, and inspirational fulfilment coach. Each session was brilliantly organised and very personal, designed to help me with specific needs and areas that I wanted to discuss.